Summer...

The scorching heat is accentuated by the hot mind...Searching for the spring of love and lust..

On and on...

Hi again...

Back to blogging after another long gap. There have been some changes in my life. But I am still an optimist...
 My new location and vocation are not exactly conducive for the eternal quest. However, I hope to find a way to keep the search on....

On the verge of another turning point in my life..Planning to leave my native place Ernakulam once more...
Reason? Need a change in the profession..Not sure what to expect in a new place..still will try out..
Hope all will be well..

Living on

Had a long break here...
Reasons: Laptop got damaged..busy with job...
Got a desktop this week and here I am...
Status: Still the same old dreamer...dreaming on...
hope to find my partner..I know I am getting older...but as long as dreams are alive, I too am....

As time keeps flowing

Looking at my blog today, I realized there has been no updates this year. We are in July and that makes it almost 7 months with no entries here...

As usual, met some new guys. Some false positives, people who were potential long term partners, but did not clinch the deal. Some flirtations, some great fun..

Where am I??

Years after I started out on this journey, I wonder where I have reached. How do I find out?

Did I get what I wished for? Not yet......

The journey so far? Well, it was a roller coaster ride. So many high points and some real dark plunges. As in any journey, I have been to some great places. Met some lovable minds, some con-artists, some by-standers..

Wherever I am, I do not intend to stop yet...It does take a lot of courage and effort, not to give up..

But having come so far, I sure can keep going...

Bold and curious...

That time of the year when new faces come on the arena. Most are curious, confused, anxious, shy. But they are bold enough to give it a shot. Some discover their true self, some can not face it though they know it and some move away....

Slow and steady..But where is my destiny?

Slow and steady????

I would say so. Having fun with guys more often. One of the benefits of living alone, I guess....

I would still prefer a steady partner. But until that happens, the show must go on......

So the journey is certainly steadier and so are the perils.Dangerous curves, gutters, humps, small mishaps. But how can I stop until I reach the goal....

Will this path lead me to my destiny?????

Another year...

Its a fresh year, new hopes and dreams...

I must admit I am surprised to see the level of ignorance that exist among the sexually active and curious sections of our society regarding the sexual minorities. If only we could do away with the prejudices...

Here is wishing all a very happy New Year and a great future....

The changing scenario...

The ball set in motion by the Delhi High Court verdict is slowly gathering momentum. With the Government of India opting not to challenge the verdict in the Supreme Court, it appears that homosexuality is finally going to be de-criminsalised in this country. It is a small step in the fight against prejdice and social stigma that haunts sexual minorities in India.

A slightly more inclusive and sympathetic approach is evident among the media and the Hindustan Times advertisement is a laudable effort in this regard. Such subtle but powerful nuances shown in national television can definitely help our cause(the same is true for negatove campaigns like TVS ad as well). It will take years and may be decades for us to be able to come out and live with dignity in our own villages in different parts of India. Yet, the hope that things are changing for the better is a great promise for our future.

Here is wishing the gay community(of which I am also a member) all the very best..